The Five (5) Steps to follow when Asking a Girl Out on a Date.
In this article, I am going to take my time to tell you the five golden rules that
you should use when you ask a girl out. Here is an overview of the points that
we are going to talk about.
v Do Not Call Her Immediately
v Do Not Ask Her for a Date Straight Away
v Make Your Date More Fun than Stress
v Just Tell Her Your Plans Instead of Asking Her
v Convince Your Girl
It can
be quite nerve racking to decide on the best way to ask a girl out. You need to consider a number of things, but
these are the five rules you should always remember.
1. Do Not
Call Her Immediately
Getting a phone number successfully from a girl you are trying to convert to a girl friend can not be as easy as boiling water. In most cases, a guy has to persuade a girl for some time in order to see success. Once you have your hands on the
girl’s phone number, don’t call her straight away, relax. Don't be too excited about it. If you appear too eager, she may think you
are desperate or you are pressurizing her, and she may be put off you
altogether.
2.
Do Not Ask Her for a Date Straight Away
When you do get around to
phoning, don’t just jump into asking her out on a date. Spend some time chatting about life in
general, or a topic that interests you both.
If your instincts are telling you that you need to get to know each other a bit better before dating, arrange to meet for coffee or a lunch just as
friends.
3. Make Your Date More Fun than Stress
Some people can make such a big
deal out of their first date, they forget to have fun. Your girl will be much more impressed if you
are relaxed and can show her that you are enjoying her company and whatever it
is you are doing.
If you are stressing out about
making sure the date is a success, you are likely to be trying too hard and
that doesn’t create a good impression and can be just as bad as being
over-confident and blasé about the situation.
When choosing a venue or activity
for your first date stick to something within your comfort zone. You will have enough nervous energy to
contend with, without having the stress that comes from dealing with a new environment
or activity at the same time.
Some people can make such a big
deal out of their first date, they forget to have fun. Your girl will be much more impressed if you
are relaxed and can show her that you are enjoying her company and whatever it
is you are doing.
If you are stressing out about
making sure the date is a success, you are likely to be trying too hard and
that doesn’t create a good impression and can be just as bad as being
over-confident and blasé about the situation.
When choosing a venue or activity
for your first date stick to something within your comfort zone. You will have enough nervous energy to
contend with, without having the stress that comes from dealing with a new environment
or activity at the same time.
4. Just Tell
Her Your Plans Instead Of Asking Her.
It is very easy to get it wrong
when you are choosing what to do and where to go on a first date. Someone has to take the initiative, and that
should be you. Have some ideas in mind
of what you would like to do, but tell your date what you're thinking
about. Providing she does not object or
make alternative suggestions, you should go ahead and make the arrangements.
If your suggestions do not meet
with your girl’s approval, ask her what she would like to do instead. You may both need to compromise to find
something you both want to do.
Depending on how well you have
gotten to know each other, it will improve your chances of arranging dates that
will meet with her approval. You will
soon learn whether she is happy to let you go ahead with arrangements for your
dates without first consulting her.
1. Convince Your Girl
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