There are some common mistakes that you should avoid at all cost when you asking agirl out.  In this blog Post I will tell you what those mistakes are. Here is the Summary of what’s going to be discussed.

v Negative Thinking

v Don’t Chase a Girl Who Is Not Interested in You

v Control your Insecurity and Jealousy

v Fear of Rejection

Knowing how to impress a girl is often not enough.  If you want to be successful, you need to know the pitfalls and how to avoid them.  This chapter will tell you more about the pitfalls to avoid.

1.   1. Negative Thinking.

Whether you consciously or unconsciously allow yourself to think negative thoughts, it will show up in your body language.  If your date is perceptive enough to read your body language or picks up on your negativity through your conversation, that alone will put your date off.  In many cases it can also prevent you from asking girls out on a date.  The only one that can get rid of that negativity is you.  You need to concentrate on what you have got, and your best features and eliminate the negative thoughts to improve your self-confidence.

2.           Don’t Chase a Girl Who Is Not Interested in You.

One of the worst mistakes you can make is to keep pushing for a date when the girl has already turned you down.  If she really isn’t interested in you and you keep pushing she could perceive that you are stalking her.  That could become a serious problem and get you into a lot of trouble.

You need to take what she is saying at face value and if she rejects your request for a date, back off.  You need to turn your attentions elsewhere.

You need to be perceptive to whether the girl is interested, but is just playing hard to get by saying no when you first ask her out.  If she starts ignoring you, and tries to avoid your company, you can be pretty sure she meant no when she said it.  If she doesn’t try and avoid you, or continues to talk to you, it might be worth waiting a while and trying again.