Your First and Last Impression Matters
In this article, Iam going to
explain quiet briefly about the first and last impressions associated with meeting
a girl.
v Be Aware of Your Body Language.
v Keep Some
Secrets of Your Personality and Reveal Slowly.
v Take Control of Your Date.
v Be Funny and Have Fun.
If you
are looking for shortcuts to impress a girl, you are wasting your time. They may be attracted to you, but are
unlikely to fall at your feet without some effort on your part. However, first impressions do count and if
you make a poor first impression you will have to work all the harder to change
it.
1.
Be Aware of Your Body Language
Be self-aware and know what your body language is saying about
you. It is possible for a girl to tell a
lot about you from your body language, before you approach or speak to her.
Watching other people and thinking about what their body
language is saying to you, can help you to become more aware of you come
across.
2.
Keep Some Secrets of Your Personality and
Reveal Slowly
Getting to know each other takes time and we all tend to be on
our best behavior until we know the person better. That is OK, unless you are hiding a deep dark
secret side to your personality.
It is easy to make the excuse that you didn’t want to frighten
her off on the first date, but she may feel more aggrieved if she finds out you
have not been truthful with her from the start.
3. Take Control of Your Date
You have asked the girl out so you can expect to have some
control on what you do and where you go.
The girl may well be happy to sit back and let you take charge, but you
take that for granted at your peril.
You need to remember that you are both equal and you both have
a right to your own opinions. On the
first date especially, you are getting to know about each other, so there
should not really be any reason for debates, heated or otherwise. Steer the conversation to keep it away from
what could be controversial subject until you know a bit more about each other.
4.
Be Funny and Have Fun
If it is a blind date, or you haven’t had the chance to get to know each other you will likely be more uptight. It is not the best time to try out a new restaurant or venue you haven’t been to before. The more familiar you both are with the surroundings the easier it will be to concentrate on each other and relax.
In a Nutshell
Asking a girl out requires some sensitivity and skill that will come with practice. You are like to have some good and some bad
experiences. You need to learn from the
good ones and put the bad ones behind you so you can move on.
You should never let a bad
experience dent your confidence because that is the key to getting your next
date. Girls are more attracted to
confident and assured males.
Not all girls are out for what
they can get out of a relationship.
However, if you do meet one that is very material orientated and start
to date her, you will need deep pockets to keep the relationship going. Unless you run out of money, you may find she
is hard to break up with, or she may quickly move on when she finds someone who
can give her more. You need to decide
what type of girl you are looking for.
This blog has been written to
provide you with an insight into how you can improve your ability to getdates. Unfortunately, as human beings
are all different and you will rarely find two people who are immediately in
tune with each other’s personalities, you do need to build up some knowledge of
the girl before she is likely to go out with you. This article will help to guide you in the
right direction.
This blog also attempts to give you an insight into the female psyche, but as I am sure you often heard said, “who can understand a women’s mind”? The answer is probably not you, but it can be fun trying. So why not have some fun? If you would love to learn more about what girls desire in a man, >>CLICK HERE<<
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